Encouraging Modesty - How much is too much?
There's around a 70% chance that you might've already disagreed with my negative outlook in the title. If not, then you're probably a bit more open minded and curious than I assumed. If you did, however, I still urge you to read on as I address a quite overlooked issue caused by a seemingly innocent chain of interactions. Also, something to keep a note of beforehand: since this doesn't affect a very sizable percentage of people, on the off-chance that you're unable to relate to this fully it's still recommended that you don't disregard these points totally. Complementing kids for being modest and thoughtful of others since their early years is often encouraged and is seen as a great way to provide incentive for better grooming in the hopes that they become a 'Good Samaritan'. However, the actual underlying 'venom' lies with people being oblivious to the other side of the coin. It all starts off with daisies and sunshine, but when ...